This article, I love my husband more than my kids, created quite a stir a few years ago. My friend's husband told me about it.
It was an... interesting read... very provocative.
But, despite all else, I kind of agree. Don't we as parents truly hope that our children will fall helplessly in love with someone some day - so much that they will choose to spend their life with that someone, learn how to sacrifice, forgive, and love... deeply... and then teach their own children by example how to love and be loved.