This is my new favorite website that I will be visiting often: http://www.moneysavingmom.com/
I am currently making huge changes in my money-spending behaviors, largely because I had an attitude change and decided that we can survive financially in this overly-priced city, and that we will survive.
Here's another good one that I found: http://www.frugallivingnw.com/
I started explaining to my husband one day after he woke up after working all night and sleeping all morning. He wriggled and mumbled something about "not stifling him too much, and making his life miserable," disappeared, and three minutes later suddenly reappeared in his biking clothes and announced that he would be back in two hours.
My husband has great (unexplained) fears of credit card debt (thank goodness), so I told him if he really, really wants something, he will now need to use his credit card and... go into debt. This way, he will not feel "afflicted" with my new budget a.k.a. my new attitude, and we will still be sticking to my budget, (assuming he never actually uses his credit card, which I don't think I'll have to worry about, but I do want him to know and feel that he has options.)
We'll see if it sticks - it's only been one week since my transformation. But I think it's a pretty serious transformation since I suggested to my husband that we sell our gorgeous king Pottery Barn Sumatra bed (we bought it right before moving when we actually had quite a bit of savings) and matching bedside tables.